Today I was watching the PGA Championship online when I heard something I had never heard before. Tiger Woods was once again leading the field. He has won the last two weeks of tournaments and, in my opinion, is playing the best golf he has played since he’s come back from the knee injury. He was running on all cylinders and it was great to watch. But, while Tiger and his caddy Steve Williams were debating on a club selection for a shot, one of the announcers said that Steve Williams told him in an interview that he sometimes lies to Tiger about a yardage to get him to hit the club he wants him to hit.
Understandably, I almost fell off my chair when I heard this. I would think that of all people Tiger Woods wouldn’t need his caddy lying to him to make sure he hits the right club. I would think that the man who has 70 career PGA Tour wins could pick the right club without anyone’s help. I would think Tiger would want the truth every time. Wouldn’t you?
The more I thought about this, the more I realized how valuable the relationship between Tiger and Steve is. They are very close, both professionally and personally. They both have the utmost confidence in each other’s ability. And, Steve is not afraid to push Tiger to another level of greatness by walking the line.
Here’s the question I have been pondering as a result of this revelation. Do I have anyone around me who knows how to tell me a “good lie”? Do I have anyone around me who knows me well enough, cares about me enough, and isn’t afraid to push me when necessary even when it means telling me a “good lie”?
I’m not at all advocating lying to people for your own personal gain, or to get them to do what you want them to do, but my eyes have definitely been opened to the value of a “good lie” from a trusted comrade. I think we all need those people who, whether they ever have to lie to you or not, we trust enough to allow them to push us to the next level even if it means they are walking a thin line of appropriateness.